Experiencing great sex with your partner is way more than trying “amazing sex positions.” It is also about spontaneity, communication, and timing that makes sex most gratifying. Without much ado, let’s dive into some incredible tips for a “happy ending.”
Know What Turns Her On
Communication is the key to great sex – and doesn’t necessarily mean talking dirty. Tell them what arouses you and also know what turns on your partner. People often shy away from discussing their stimulation points or they simply push their partner to do something that the latter may not like. This can never give you the “happiness” you want to experience in bed. So, you should be vocal about what you like and also respect what arouses her. If you want to have (and give) the best possible climax, make sure both of you do not remain mum.
Foreplay is a Must
There is one thing that differentiates great sex from bad sex – foreplay. Many experts suggest that foreplay can be better and more pleasurable than having sex. It paves the way for an awesome experience in bed, ticking your partner for a mind-blowing climax. Foreplay can be anything from kissing and caressing to watching porm movies with your partner for the perfect stimulation.
Depending on what she likes, you can give her a nipple orgasm or talk dirty. Use your fingers, lips, and tongue to kiss, lick, and slither around her inner thighs for an amazing “thigh job.” Similarly, she can drive you insane by giving a steamy lap dance or striptease. Many men also get aroused seeing their partner playing with a vibrator. You can always try new and innovative things to make the foreplay session most worthwhile.
The Wetter It is, the Better Will Be Your Climax
There seems to be a misconception that using lubrication means you (or your partner) have turned old or there is some problem. This is obviously not true. Using lubricants makes sex more comfortable and fun for all. It helps offset the problems affecting your natural lubrication and reduces painful friction. Lube can also offer ecstatic new feelings, where your mind can only focus on sex.
Eat Her Out
Before you get off with full-on penetration, give her a good oral sex and she will make you cum harder. Do it in whatever way she enjoys – lick it, eat her, or give her a clitoris orgasm. When done right, oral sex can be seriously pleasing – even more than penetration for many women. Find her clitoris and give her a good stimulation, slowly using your lips and then your tongue and fingers. Just like men, it is an incredible source of orgasm for many women and can charge them to give you a fully satisfying sexual experience.
Keep Things on the Bed Spontaneous
Even sex may start to feel boring eventually if you are repeating things more or less. Therefore experts suggest practicing new things on the bed that you or your partner may enjoy – be it a change in position, teasing, role-playing, or anything else. Do not fall into the bracket of “duty sex.” Instead, you should try to do things a little differently every time. Maybe you can have sex in new places, in the car, on your kitchen countertop, or perhaps on the couch. Take a bath together or you (or your partner) can take up a role to make things more fun and innovative.
Experimenting with new things is the secret to keeping the fire going within you and your partner. Elsewhere, the erotic passion will disappear over time.
Play With Props and Toys
Experts often suggest exploring the unknown to experience great sex. One way is to use toys and props. This may be anything from blindfolds to massage oils to vibrators or stimulators. This will help you get both of you in the mood and help your libido rise. And if you and your partner want to take things to another level, try BDSM.
Final Thoughts
There is no “right” or “wrong” thing when it comes to experiencing unadulterated sex with your partner. As long as both of you are comfortable and enjoying, you are doing great. However, following the above tips can spice up things to the next level and help you reach the desired climax.
